The Relentless Formula for Growth

Eric Marquette

Alright, let's properly unpack what it means to have a relentless mindset. Now, this isn't just about working hard or staying busy—though those things matter. It's really about refusing—just flat-out refusing—to settle, no matter the circumstances. You see, a relentless mindset is knowing deep within you that excuses—they don't serve you. Comfort zones won't push you. And unless, unless you go after growth actively, you’re not gonna move forward.

Eric Marquette

But here’s the thing—a lot of us, maybe most of us at some point, get stuck in this victim mentality, don’t we? You know, where we believe that life happens to us and that we’re powerless to change it. I’ve been there myself, you know. I remember, years ago, hitting a moment—well, really a series of moments—where I caught myself thinking, 'Why is this happening to me?' And and it was almost like I was... I don’t know, waiting for some external force to come in and fix it all.

Eric Marquette

But here’s the truth: accountability—taking full, no excuses, no blame accountability—that’s the shift. That’s the moment you start owning your life instead of just living it passively. Take Michael Jordan, for example. You know, everyone talks about his talent, his unmatched skills, but what stands out to me is his obsession with growth. He wasn’t out there blaming missed shots on the refs or his teammates. No, he was relentless about improving himself. He took those failures—those defeats—and turned them into fuel. It’s, it’s powerful.

Eric Marquette

Or look at Sara Blakely—an entrepreneur who created Spanx. When she started out, she faced rejection after rejection. I mean, imagine showing your ideas again and again only to hear 'no' every, single time. She could have—you know—easily slipped into thinking, 'This isn’t for me. It’s not gonna work.' But she didn’t. She pushed through, she persisted relentlessly and built, well, a billion-dollar company.

Eric Marquette

And that’s kind of the point. Whether you're aiming to excel in sports, build a business, or simply improve your day-to-day habits, a relentless mindset isn’t optional. It’s foundational. It’s about showing up, staying accountable, and actively chasing growth—even when, you know, you don’t feel like it.

Eric Marquette

Now, let’s talk about discipline. It’s, it’s such a fundamental component when it comes to navigating the day-to-day grind. Without it, well, even the best intentions can sort of... fall apart, right? Motivation might get you started, but discipline? That’s the force that keeps you moving forward when excitement fades.

Eric Marquette

I’ll never forget this one particular situation. It was years ago—back when I was juggling multiple jobs, trying to make ends meet. Life felt heavy, honestly, like I was on this never-ending treadmill. But one day, I made a decision—a really small one at first—to wake up an hour earlier. Not because I wanted to, trust me. But because I needed that extra time to plan my day, set intentions, and just, just breathe before chaos kicked in. And that small adjustment? It became a habit. Over time, it snowballed into something bigger than I ever expected. That’s the beauty of discipline—it doesn’t demand massive, grand gestures. It thrives on consistency, even in the smallest acts.

Eric Marquette

Now, the thing about discipline is it works like a muscle. The more you practice it, the stronger it gets. And yes, I know, in the beginning, it can feel like an uphill battle. Your brain tries to negotiate—'Maybe tomorrow,' it says. 'What’s one day missed?' But those are the moments where, you know, discipline refuses to negotiate. It steps in and says, 'No, today matters. Right now matters.'

Eric Marquette

And listen, motivation? It’s great, don’t get me wrong. It feels good, it gets you fired up. But it’s also fleeting. It comes and goes. Discipline, on the other hand, is steady. It’s not flashy, it’s not glamorous, but it’s reliable. Think of it like... like laying bricks. Each day you show up, you’re adding another brick to your foundation. And over time, well, you build something solid—something unshakable.

Eric Marquette

So, if you’re facing challenges right now—whether it’s breaking a bad habit or starting something new—ask yourself: 'How can I be consistent?' Shift the focus from results to the process itself. Because that’s where the real transformation happens.

Eric Marquette

When we think about struggles, it’s easy to view them as setbacks—as obstacles standing in the way of what we want. But here’s the perspective shift: struggles aren’t just roadblocks. They’re lessons. They’re opportunities. And honestly? They’re some of life’s greatest teachers.

Eric Marquette

You see, growth rarely comes from comfort. It comes from discomfort, from challenge, from adversity. The relentless mindset embraces that. It says, 'Alright, this is hard. But what can I learn from it? How can I use it to push forward?' And that right there? That’s where transformation begins.

Eric Marquette

Now, one approach that’s helped me—and many others—is keeping a growth journal. It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant, just a space where you can reflect. Write down the challenges you’ve faced, the lessons you’ve learned, and, most importantly, how you’ve grown because of them. You’d be amazed at the perspective that brings. Things you thought you’d never overcome? You’ll see how they’ve shaped you—how they’ve toughened you.

Eric Marquette

And then there’s something even more powerful: mentorship. Seeking someone who’s walked a similar path, who’s faced similar struggles, can be transformative. You don’t have to navigate adversity alone. A mentor can offer guidance, perspective, and sometimes, just reassurance that you’re on the right track.

Eric Marquette

I mean, look at Oprah Winfrey. Her story is one of resilience and relentless perseverance. She faced poverty, rejection—even abuse—and instead of letting those struggles define her in a negative way, she used them as fuel for her success. She embraced those hardships, learned from them, and became the powerhouse she is today. Her journey is a testament to the idea that embracing your struggles can lead to something far greater than you ever imagined.

Eric Marquette

And so, as we close this episode, I want you to remember this: struggles will come—that’s just a fact of life. But it’s how you choose to face them that defines your growth. Will you let them beat you down? Or will you let them build you up? With the right mindset—the relentless mindset—you already know the answer.

Eric Marquette

And that’s all for today. Thank you for spending this time with me. If this resonated, if it motivated you even just a little, I’d love for you to share it with someone who might need to hear it. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, keep pushing forward. I’ll see you next time.